I say zeke is on the edge of some sort of real life meltdown...thoughts?

[wizer]

It is too long to go in detail.  There are people who know the truth.  I didn't betray who you think.  Someone came to me talking about her and I gave into it.  I have said I was wrong in judging her.  I have said that on the board and in pm.  Some people can't let stuff go.

Seriously, believe what you wish. 

I responded to your pm and told you why I said that. I'm responding mostly to what you confirm over at the other board. I don't believe what other people say, especially over there, just because they happened to post about it. But in between the insults, and the trash talk and the 3rd grade insults are a handful of people who once considered you a friend, whom you apparently said some bad things about and they're seriously hurt by it.

That's all.

[zana]

I responded to your pm and told you why I said that. I'm responding mostly to what you confirm over at the other board. I don't believe what other people say, especially over there, just because they happened to post about it. But in between the insults, and the trash talk and the 3rd grade insults are a handful of people who once considered you a friend, whom you apparently said some bad things about and they're seriously hurt by it.

That's all.

I haven't read your pm yet.  I'm not sure who the handful is.  I guess you didn't know that people went behind my back.  I didn't start the bashing.  That is all I will say. 

Thanks for not judging me.

[wizer]

I haven't read your pm yet.  I'm not sure who the handful is.  I guess you didn't know that people went behind my back.  I didn't start the bashing.  That is all I will say. 

Thanks for not judging me.

I think I AM judging you.

[zana]

I think I AM judging you.

Ok then.  You can do what you want.

[wizer]

Ok then.  You can do what you want.

If you felt that way about those members when you said those things, why do you feel different now?

I mean, what happened to change your opinion of them since then?

Did they make a really good post or something?

[zana]

If you felt that way about those members when you said those things, why do you feel different now?

I mean, what happened to change your opinion of them since then?

Did they make a really good post or something?

There was no "those"

I can't talk about this anymore.

[Dovey]

If you felt that way about those members when you said those things, why do you feel different now?

I mean, what happened to change your opinion of them since then?

Did they make a really good post or something?

 Don't bother Wizer. Trying to reason with her is like ramming your head into a wall. Its only wrong when other people do it to HER, but its okay for her to do the same ****.

 She is never going to own it. I hope it was worth it for her because she has lost some good friends as a result(Chaos, Fi) She will probably blame ME for that as well. 

[Firecrotch]

The only people I trust 100% are my boyfriend and his family, my mother, my sister, my brother and his family, and two very close friends. Of course, I place a certain amount of trust with people online, but never in a way that if that trust was broken, something bad would happen to me. KWIM?

It's normal to feel some kind of emotion when your virtual friend fucks you over, but you have to remember that most of these people you interract with have nothing to lose when they do **** you over. If it does happen, mourn the loss of this online friendship and move on. It's not healthy to linger on something for so long.

Just my two cents.

[zana]

The only people I trust 100% are my boyfriend and his family, my mother, my sister, my brother and his family, and two very close friends. Of course, I place a certain amount of trust with people online, but never in a way that if that trust was broken, something bad would happen to me. KWIM?

It's normal to feel some kind of emotion when your virtual friend fucks you over, but you have to remember that most of these people you interract with have nothing to lose when they do **** you over. If it does happen, mourn the loss of this online friendship and move on. It's not healthy to linger on something for so long.

Just my two cents.

very well said....

[RWS]

Yes, very well put FC.  It's not a good idea to put to much stock in internet "friendships".  I've seen people be burned by online friends they had for years, and thought they could trust them. 

[GoodWitch]

Yes, very well put FC.  It's not a good idea to put to much stock in internet "friendships".  I've seen people be burned by online friends they had for years, and thought they could trust them. 

That happens in r/l, too. I knew my ex husband for many years. Just sayin'. People are people - good & bad all over.

[RWS]

That happens in r/l, too. I knew my ex husband for many years. Just sayin'. People are people - good & bad all over.

So true.  I do think the internet makes it harder to truly know who you are dealing with.

[wizer]

I trust all the members at Trollvalhalla which is why I always upload pictures of myself and talk about my personal life to such a great extent. They are my friends and they would never hurt me.

 

[RWS]

I trust all the members at Trollvalhalla which is why I always upload pictures of myself and talk about my personal life to such a great extent. They are my friends and they would never hurt me.

 

 
 

[Firecrotch]

ROFL.