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« Reply #30 on: March 20, 2009, 01:18:58 pm » |
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I don't really care what anyone on the www thinks of me. If they think I'm a ****, fat, rude, crass, fugly, etc, that's their problem, not mine. The only opinion I really care about are my loved-ones. I know that some people on there are very lonely people and the opinions of their board mates matters a great deal. That's kinda sad.
Well, it is a way to meet people, no different than any other way. Some become real friends. They matter, a great deal. |
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« Reply #31 on: March 20, 2009, 01:31:52 pm » |
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Well, it is a way to meet people, no different than any other way. Some become real friends. They matter, a great deal.
True. For me though, I'm friendly with people here but I will not tell them my personal life. I did that and I only got **** over. |
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« Reply #32 on: March 20, 2009, 01:58:21 pm » |
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True.
For me though, I'm friendly with people here but I will not tell them my personal life. I did that and I only got **** over.
Wel, you have to be careful with people anywhere. Humans are a pretty dangerous species. |
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« Reply #34 on: March 20, 2009, 04:50:42 pm » |
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It still hurts to see lies posted about you.
You know it's not true, and you know it shouldn't matter.... but it still hurts.
And I refuse to defend myself. In order to do so, I would have to post MORE PI, which I'm not quite dumb enough to do.
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« Reply #35 on: March 20, 2009, 05:25:38 pm » |
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It still hurts to see lies posted about you.
You know it's not true, and you know it shouldn't matter.... but it still hurts.
And I refuse to defend myself. In order to do so, I would have to post MORE PI, which I'm not quite dumb enough to do.
Then why patronize boards where this sort of thing happens? I've been asking myself that same question lately. I have justified it to myself by saying that fighting with those losers all day long is a way to vent out my anger due to divorce related frustrations but in fact I think it simply escalates it to some degree. It's nothing but a big waste of time and energy that could be spent..I dunno..reading a book, going for a walk, jumping on the treadmill, going for a bike ride...meeting my next girlfriend..etc. |
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« Reply #36 on: March 20, 2009, 05:29:40 pm » |
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I very, very rarely visit boards where I don't have a good time. What's the point? Life's too short for that.
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« Reply #37 on: March 20, 2009, 05:59:01 pm » |
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Then why patronize boards where this sort of thing happens?
I've been asking myself that same question lately.
I have justified it to myself by saying that fighting with those losers all day long is a way to vent out my anger due to divorce related frustrations but in fact I think it simply escalates it to some degree. It's nothing but a big waste of time and energy that could be spent..I dunno..reading a book, going for a walk, jumping on the treadmill, going for a bike ride...meeting my next girlfriend..etc.
Because I'm a glutton for punishment? I'm going to go sell GS cookies, tomorrow we learn how to make pasta. Sunday... I'm grabbin the chainsaw and clearing out the Back 40. See y'all on Monday. Smooches!!! |
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« Reply #38 on: March 20, 2009, 06:03:42 pm » |
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Because I'm a glutton for punishment? I'm going to go sell GS cookies, tomorrow we learn how to make pasta. Sunday... I'm grabbin the chainsaw and clearing out the Back 40.
See y'all on Monday.
Smooches!!!
Have fun! |
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« Reply #39 on: March 22, 2009, 04:58:53 pm » |
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What's really bad is that a lot of its not even true. They know (from what I've posted on other boards) my "soft spots". and what is important to me. And they use that against me and make up stuff to try to hurt me. It's just cruel. I know stuff about them, that I could use. But I can't bring myself to do it. Even when I *think* I'm being mean, and sometimes cringe at what I type..... it still doesn't hold a candle to Dove and her crowd. I just don't have it in me to be so cruel. But... *said in my Best Scaret O'Hara voice* " I can't think of that today, I'll think about it tomorrow".  People are cruel. Troll board/No troll board it is just gross. I have my share of stupid **** thrown at me...by people I thought were my friends. The truth is no one is your friend here or anywhere on the net. That is how I think now. |
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« Reply #40 on: March 22, 2009, 05:04:42 pm » |
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People are cruel. Troll board/No troll board it is just gross. I have my share of stupid **** thrown at me...by people I thought were my friends.
The truth is no one is your friend here or anywhere on the net. That is how I think now.
I've been through a lot of weird stuff online but I won't go so far as to say NO ONE is my friend. I can't think that way. There are a few people who have taken huge leaps of faith with me, and I respect that and give it back. Most people aren't really friendly, though, I'll give you that much! |
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« Reply #41 on: March 22, 2009, 05:08:04 pm » |
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I've been through a lot of weird stuff online but I won't go so far as to say NO ONE is my friend. I can't think that way. There are a few people who have taken huge leaps of faith with me, and I respect that and give it back. Most people aren't really friendly, though, I'll give you that much!
I may of sound a bit drastic. It may just be a funk. There are people who I admire on the net here and there. I just rather keep to myself from now on. |
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« Reply #42 on: March 22, 2009, 05:25:56 pm » |
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People are cruel. Troll board/No troll board it is just gross. I have my share of stupid **** thrown at me...by people I thought were my friends.
The truth is no one is your friend here or anywhere on the net. That is how I think now.
You have admitted on another board that you badmouthed a member who entrusted you with personal information, to yet a third member. And to yet another member you acknowledge that you said all this derogatory stuff about her to yet ANOTHER member. I'm not trying to give you a hard time, really I'm not..but I'm seeing several members (on that other board) who are pissed off at you and "throwing **** at you" because they feel betrayed by things that you ADMIT that you did to them. Just say'en... |
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« Reply #43 on: March 22, 2009, 06:11:51 pm » |
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You have admitted on another board that you badmouthed a member who entrusted you with personal information, to yet a third member.
And to yet another member you acknowledge that you said all this derogatory stuff about her to yet ANOTHER member.
I'm not trying to give you a hard time, really I'm not..but I'm seeing several members (on that other board) who are pissed off at you and "throwing **** at you" because they feel betrayed by things that you ADMIT that you did to them.
Just say'en...
It is too long to go in detail. There are people who know the truth. I didn't betray who you think. Someone came to me talking about her and I gave into it. I have said I was wrong in judging her. I have said that on the board and in pm. Some people can't let stuff go. Seriously, believe what you wish. |
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« Reply #44 on: March 22, 2009, 06:27:23 pm » |
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It is too long to go in detail. There are people who know the truth. I didn't betray who you think. Someone came to me talking about her and I gave into it. I have said I was wrong in judging her. I have said that on the board and in pm. Some people can't let stuff go.
Seriously, believe what you wish.
I've encountered people who can't let stuff go, either. Or who have half a story and fill in their own blanks. Pathetic..... |
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