Wizer....I have said it to you before, I believe once your daughters grow up and get out from under their mothers thumb, they will come around. You will someday have your father/daughter relationship back.
They are teen-agers, its normal even under the best circumstances for teen-ager to break away from their parents.
I did with my parents, my sons did with me, but once they become adults they realize how much their parents mean to them. And then you will have back that close relationship you had with them when they were younger.
I know someday you will be posting here......how your daughters came to you....
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In the mean time, don't ever loose hope.